Lesson # 01 : Using Leibermann principle in friendship

NEVER ! ever trusting a friend without testing their so-called 'friendly' meter, how u ask ?

Monday, 20 August 2007

A week ago i've met this friend of mine, old pal, saying all this things about i'm his bestest friend, i think about it and gave him his much wanted response while implementing this principle

# 1 Emphaty

I said to him that i'm having sumtin bad in my life, but don't wanna talk about it, see if he care, and yes he keep wanting to know what is it so he can help, he passes.

# 2 Loyalty

I told him my 'best friend's secret, to see his comment on that, and yes he mad at me for telling him my best friend's secret, me end up apologizing.

# 3 Pride

Anybody can encourage you when u're down coz that way they'll fed their ego by being mr nice guy. but not many be willing to praise or congratulate us for our success ( as individual not group, like wedding where most would congratulate us )

# 4 True Honesty

All people lie to some extent, some do that in prospect of gain, but when it comes to friendship, true friend will tell honestly when something must be told for the good of their friends, if its mean they would be hated for that, something like 'man brush u're teeth, u smelly rat!'

# 5 Sacrificing

Having a friend means we would be at ease though our car is crashed, knowing there is somebody capable of helping, willing to waste their precious time when we truly need them the most.

It would takes a week before i finally agreed his friendship, he is now one of my friend, somebody i can depend on, somebody i very much trust. But i may take years to consider him as my bestest.